I am confused

my friend shows that he love me but dont accept me as his girlfriend. we live in different cities and not even met each others yet. I thought that he want to study thats why he dont want a relationship now and he is a topper too in college. But still he wants to kiss me and do sex with me. he said that when i will come to meet him he will definitely kiss me but i dont even want to kiss him without being in a serious relationship with him. but he bets to me that he will do all that to me. he respects me a lot. he always show intrest in me. he call me and talk to me for hours. it seems like he want to complete each and every wish of mine. but the problem is he dont want any relationship with me and i am not conformed whether he want to marry me in future or not.he says that he will not marry anyone but if he love me then why cant he marry me. i know that he is not having any girlfriend. but i am the type of girl who will kiss only one boy to whom i will marry.

Since you know what this guy is all about, cut him off and move on. He wants to have you as convenient booty call. When guys like this TELL you all they want is sex, RUN and never look back. This guy dose not love you, he just SAYS this because he knows you what to HEAR THIS!! IT MEANS noting!!! Stick to your morals and tell him that you are not interested in having a SEX only friendship. Then stop the communication this guy is bad news He tells you he doesn't want a relationship with you, yet you continue to believe he wants to complete every wish of yours? No he wants to complete every wish of his. He tells you he doesn't want to marry anyone, yet you feel he might some how love you? WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM- He's shown you all he wants from you is sex... common sense should tell you END THIS. You deserve so much more

PS: What exactly are you confused about? I think he's been very clear where he stands and what he wants from you.

yep - totally agree with Skinnygirl : take her advice

PS again: If you still have questions respond back, how old are you by the way?

I AM 19

So at 19 you now must learn to become aware of people's motives and agendas. You are still young and inexperience, this guy knows this and is manipulating you. Trust no one over the internet (ever hear of Catfish, ). Never send or loan money, never agree to meet someone you don't know or have ever met. Use this experience as a lesson learn. Tell Yourself Boy What Was I thinking. :)

Thank you so much for your help skinnygirl. i was stuck in all this for 3 years. and i was unable to understand anything. i just lost my power of taking right decision. thnk u so much.

When woman give up their power they loose control over their lives. Prepare yourself to be self sufficient and independent and the ability to support yourself. Woman are motivate by our feelings (our heart) however your brain will help you make smarter choices and when in doubt use common sense.