My wife spending time with another man

Hello, Me and my wife are disagreeing about time she is spending with the father of the kids she is sitting. He get at our house at 3:45 when the kid get there.the problem is he stays ther and talk with her and the kids. . They all talk and laugh while she is cooking supper. Hearing about the kids day. Sometime it's just her and him. I get home at 4:10. By then everybody has heard about the kids day and my wife's day and I have missed it all. When I get home he leaves 5 minutes later. When he brings the kids at night. (He works 3rd)he talks to her. Offers to take out trash. Am I wrong for thing this is inappropriate. Thanks in advance

I'm generally the jealous type , with that being said I totally agree that this is very inappropriate . It's your household , not his . He should be respectful of this . If your wife is like mine she is very naive about other men's intentions . Try talking to her , it might work . If not you might want to put your foot down .

Yes she is naive,took your advice,had a talk with him and he has no problem with it. A lot of time people may not relieze what it looks like on the other side. Now he wait til I get home before picking up his kids. 1st Day went good

Excellent! Well done for being so healthily protective and proactive (bud-nipping) towards your relationship, JERRY. And well done to you, too, BASSMAN, that was very realistic feedback. :-)