So, I went to see a West End show recently, & I am NOT the type of person who usually even notices a guy on stage other than to comment on how he is as a performer. But on this particular evening I was drawn to this amazing looking performer & I couldn't take my eyes off him. I was sitting in the front row & then I noticed him looking at me. At first a little glance now & then, & as the show went on he was looking more & more. By the end of the show I was smitten and noticed him looking at me, but had to rush off to get my train.
I pretty much shrugged it off & enjoyed it for what it was. But then the following week a friend booked tickets for us to see the same show as a surprise cos I'd told her how much I enjoyed it & I'd had a really, really bad week. (Fab friend :) We had front row seats & the same thing happened with this guy. I couldn't take my eyes off him & he blatantly couldn't help looking out at me. Plus my friend noticed him looking at me a lot too! At the end of the show when he saw me looking at him he blatantly smiled at the fact that I was checking him out! And he was most definitely not checking out any other member of the audience!
I know this sounds childish but I've never been in a situation like this & yes nothing will probably come of it BUT playing devil's advocate IF I wanted to try to get to know him, how can I do it without looking like groupie or stalker?
I've had a rough few months & it'd be nice to have something to make me smile again.
I don't want to hang around outside the stage door because apart from anything else I am pretty shy & there's no way I could talk to him with lots of other people around us! I'd really like to see if there's anything there when he's off stage.
How can I subtly get to know him?
I would love some genuine suggestions but please don't comment if you're going to be negative.
How do I get to know him?
How do I get to know him?
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