Marriage and doing seperate things?

Ok so been with my wife for 9 years now, we have a pretty good relationship id say, we have a 20 month old baby boy and a 7 week old girl. The last month my wife has felt like she is bored with her life and is stuck home, and that I go to work and that I can go and do my music things (im a musician) such as gigs etc which is possibly once a month.. So the other day she mentioned about being bored with her life and that she wants a change, and that I get all the time out with my shows, visiting friends etc. so now im feeling guilty and bad, 1. Is this normal with 2 children esp a newborn? 2. How can I still go out/ but help her to go out more aswell? She says her highlights are going out to her mums for tea, which we do often any advice?

Your marriage will die if you don't let your wife have hobbies and see her friends. She should go out a few nights a month while you stay at home and clean up after dinner and put the children to bed. You wife will be happy and she won't complain when you go out to do your music thing and see your friends. ;-D