Love sick and confused

I have fallen in love with a guy .. lets call him "1" who is 6 years older than me. One day I got the rugby players number and we started texting eachother. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me aswell. While all this was going on, his gorgeous single brother lets call him "2" liked me who is only 4 and a half years older than me. But "2" got a girlfriend and I thought nothing of it until "1" started to ignore and pretend I did not exist. I dont know what to do because I love "1" for all the wrong reasons, but want to be with "2" though i cant