He says he loves me bit brakes my heart n seems to like me crying

We're having a baby together I have 2 already he has one both from past relationships.. Today I decided to come for help as o went to an operation with my disables daughter today and also juts found out there cud be possible complications in my pregnancy.. I'm writing because my boyfriend texted me while in hospital to ask if he can go on a lads day out were not living together yet jus to move in within a week n baby sit his daughter.. Not only do I think that's bad timing I have enough on my mind already but very inconsiderate considering I had his daughter last time.he had her sleep for his bday because he was too drunk also he doesn't really have mine twice since we met n I have his daughter a lot now so he can work more or go out.. He blamed it all on me n said he wants me to apologise for being upset that he asked ( I didn't say no) just told him how upset I am he asked me while in hospital and about to have a scan n more bloods next week to see if baby OK I'm in bits feels like he doesn't care and very heartless...

Why wasn't he with you at the hospital, was he at work? Does he have his own kids full-time? I may have old-fashioned views but he should be there for you, not planning boys days out, how old is he? It certainly sounds like he doesn't care as much as he should, or it may be that he doesn't understand his responsibilities. If you're madly in love with him, you won't accept anyone telling you that you should walk away from him. If you're not madly in love with, now's the time to think about what's more important, chasing a man who makes you feel like you do now, or your two kids and the new one on the way.