I need some love

I have been going out with my girlfriend for over 5 years. Lately things have not been going so well. We nearly broke up at christmas but agreed to give it another try. I have told her how much i love her but she says she can't say she loves me until she really means and can't say something she doesn't mean. I'm finding it very hard as she makes very little effort and will not commit to anything in the future. Now she's on about going away for a weekend with a group of girls, some of whom are single and going to one of the sleaziest clubs in the country. Am i being unreasonable in not wanting her to go there while we are like this? I mean its renowned as as place where women get groped the whole night. I want her to make an extra effort in our relationship because i seem to be giving the whole time and getting no affection back.

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