Feeling no love

My bf I have different sex drives & this has been an issue in our relationship since the beginning. We have a fantastic life together & both say that we have the best sex of our entire lives. I just wish it was more regular & not always on his terms. I feel rejected & unloved when he doesn't want to fool around. Any advice?

My guess is that either you haven't found what makes him horny or he's after something entirely different sexually that you can't / haven't offered. An easy excuse to tell yourself is that he isn't a sexual person, though I'm not exactly sold on that because sex is a very big part of relationships no matter who you are. I'd say pay attention to what his favorite parts of you are and focus on maximizing those. He likes a certain part of your body? he likes the way you wear your hair? he likes the way you talk to your friends? Pay attention to those things because they might have been what drew him sexually to you in the first place. My ex knew I loved her ass, she teased me constantly with it, we fucked endlessly, it was amazing. Focus on what he wants. Hopefully that helps.