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RelationshipsIs reconciliation possible after long time separation
CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 20:25 by atfirstdawn569 LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 23:43

I left my spouse after 19 years, now I want to work on getting our connection back. How can we do this? We were separated off/ onfor the last six years. We both still have feelings for one another....

RelationshipsI don't know if I can stay with my S/O. I despise his brother!!
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 17:50 by ICantWin RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 15:12

** I'm sorry for how long it is** So. This all started about a year ago. I moved in with my boyfriend and his family. It was going well for a few weeks then his brother started getting more and more volatile. He would make jibes at me and constant derogatory comments. None of which my boyfriend would say anything about. I started a new job and made a male friend there, my boyfriend didn&...

BereavementBest friend passed away & his partner is disturbing me
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 5 2017 at 14:18 by Mou83 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 09:45

I lost my best friend to cancer on April 20th, we had been close for 8 years practically inseparable until he began to see a new man 3 years ago. I had met up with them both a few times but always found his partner to be quite arrogant and bolshy but made the effort for my best friend. Upon losing my best friend suddenly after he returned from along haul flight and became very sick, his partner an...

EmotionalShe doesn't want to hurt me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 19:56 by dani.samani (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 08:32

story started 2 month ago when I met this girl. I really liked her after we talked, but then 2 days later I left the city but we were still communicating and our feelings to each other were growing and I realized that I really love her. she told me that she likes me and I told her the same as well and she even called me her soulmate she said she is the luckiest girl to have me, she said that she m...

RelationshipsI'm horrible at friendships and strong bonding
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 18:38 by archiguy RESPONDENTS: AloneatMidnight / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 7 2017 at 23:01

I am very bad at making friends. Well, it becomes friendship and healthy colleagues relationship thing only at workplace or school but I've never been a person whom people will call up and say "Hey! Let's go to a movie. Let's go to XYZ city or park or hangout zone." I am realizing that all along my life, I've been ignoring this thing about me and staying happy wit...

RelationshipsMarriage is ending and I lost the faith of my wife
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 05:13 by stupidhusband RESPONDENTS: Amaze0707 / Melissa1512 LAST POST: Jun 8 2017 at 07:15

I have been married for over ten years and each and every year our marriage and friendship grows apart. I want to save my marriage as I love my wife so dearly but I am afraid our troubles are all my fault and it may be too late to fix. Looking back now I realize that my relationship with my parents caused great strife in my marriage. It started with small things, like the first time I brought m...

RelationshipsHusband changed password on his phone
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2017 at 04:06 by Emmy512 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 23:41

I'm going to try not to make this post too long. I'm going to start out with saying that I am a very insecure person. Lately my husband has been acting a little strange. He's a a farmer so he basically leaves the house in the morning before I even get up and doesn't come home sometimes until I am already in bed. We have always been very open with each other as far as passwords ...

EmotionalWhat is wrong with my wife? Please help!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 3 2017 at 14:48 by BeingLimitless RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 9 2017 at 08:20

married for 15 yrs and have 3 kids. A week ago she told me she's in love with someone else. This someone else turns out to be an individual who is famous and located across the world. She is into Wiccan type practices and says they communicate spiritually. He doesn't have any social media but she swears he has Twitter and FB. She says he leaves messages for her through Twitter and FB. Sh...

RelationshipsShould I end this relationship?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 3 2017 at 01:00 by JinDaHouse RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 01:12

I have been dating a female for about 8 months, this is after I finally physically separated from my ex wife - I have dated off and on for years even while being married and living in the same house as my ex - we lived in the same house for financial reasons and were comfortable with each other dating that time. So I finally moved out a year ago and wanted to have some time to myself, get to know ...

RelationshipsNeed advice... can anyone relate?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 22:46 by SophiesChoice RESPONDENTS: Floorguy / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:29

Hello all, I was looking online for a forum where I could vent my situation and hopefully be offered an opinion and/or advice to help me. I am 56 and my husband is 11 years older than I am. We have been married for 7 years now. Before we got married we were both in pretty good shape. I hit the gym regularly and was a size 2. He was not actively working out, but was only about 10 lbs. overweight...

SexI'm not sure if its considered cheating
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 21:41 by ShamefulGirlfriend RESPONDENTS: Floorguy / dadyethan / Soulmate / Scopes / Silvarion / sarah Nagy LAST POST: Aug 16 2017 at 02:29

My boyfriend and I have been going through a hard patch. he has been having problems with this job and that's fine I'm very supportive I can financially take care of the both of us. I try to keep him motivated to still try even though things aren't great, but recently I have reconnected with an old friend of mine. We haven't met up and I don't plan on doing it, But long st...

EmotionalTo be honest, I'm not sure what I need...
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 10:09 by Emotions4Days96 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jun 6 2017 at 23:58

I understand that I'm young and I have a lot going for me as it stands right now. I guess I tend to feel a little guilty when I act like I need help or think that I'm too stuck to get myself out of the situations I've created. I've always just pushed things back because I know that there are people going through so much worse, and that my little problems don't compare to a...

RelationshipsVery complicated situation - marriage in Trouble
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 01:39 by GummieB3ar RESPONDENTS: SophiesChoice / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:00

My husband and I have had a rough couple of weeks. He came out as bi about a month ago to me and told me that he needed to explore and find himself and the only way to do that would be to have sex with men, which I sort of understand and may be ok with under certain circumstances. The problem is he said that he was going to do that whether it was ok with me or not and would not agree to sit down a...

EmotionalPast issues problem
[1 POST] CREATED: May 31 2017 at 23:01 by heiress_reine RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 5 2017 at 12:54

My man likes to fight me on everything and he his the insulting type(my family included) I don't know how to calm him down and we have been together for 8years. I need answers before I leave this relationship cause I feel like a savage ...

RelationshipsTroubled marriage. Considering divorce or separation
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 31 2017 at 13:47 by Ursula RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 01:51

I'm having a lot of issues with my husband... Before we were married, I lived on my own and supported myself, debt free, with two horses. I have and still do make more money than he does. He moved in with me and brought a lot of student debt and a car payment into the marriage. I wasn't worried about the money because we loved each other and I was happy to work with him to get out of...

EmotionalMother in law drama
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 31 2017 at 07:07 by Fraber RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:50

I have always had a decent relationship with my soon to be mother in law, she was always there to talk and there were things that I went to her to talk about when I didn't tell anyone else - including my concern that I was becoming depressed. Time to time she could be very dramatic and too involved..but I always overlooked this. From the time me and my fiancee started dating when we were in h...

EmotionalEar piercing
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 30 2017 at 17:15 by Emmajm RESPONDENTS: teddy / lily31 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:12

My mam and dad finally let me get my ears pierced, I'm fourteen and today me, my mam and sister went to get it done. I was well nervous as I don't like pain and in my head I told myself it was going to really hurt. I asked my mam and sister what it was like and told them I was nervous but they told me to get on with it and ignored me. I was shaking so bad and I freaked out whenever the w...

EmotionalI want to commit suicide
[10 POSTS] CREATED: May 30 2017 at 15:11 by Briella RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 / Soulmate / 8Twenty8 / BKJaxta / Created4Purpose / Gto444 / Mingliao / Silvarion LAST POST: Jul 12 2017 at 12:45

I am a 21 year old girl, and I feel like the last two years of my life has been the worst. I just got withdrawn from medical school and right now I feel like a failure. Have always wanted to study medicine all my life, never thought of anything else except that. Now I would have to enroll again to do another course. Everyone knows am studying medicine, they are already calling me a doctor now I f...

RelationshipsWhat would you think and do if this happened? See below
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 30 2017 at 08:46 by Chris E. RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2017 at 02:23

I had something (married for 16+ yrs.) Happen. Please tell me what you would do and think. Here it is: What if you looked in your wifes purse and in the bottom found fishnet stockings and a couple of hair bands, the ones used to put hair in like a pony tail for instance? There was a good explanation given why they were in there, but I want to know opinions from as many people that will answer. Tk...