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I have been married for almost five years now, my husband never stops drinking on week-ends, he is never around and laways comes home drunk. I have discussed this, fought with him to the point I ended up crying. Maybe the problem is I just do not know how to discuss this with him. I tried letting him know that his drinking on weekends really affects me because I just cant have a deceant conversation with him when he is like that but my words are just ignored. I cant even kiss him when he is drunk, he comes home around 23hrs to midnight and still doesnt see that as wrong. I must not tell him what to do, what time he must come home and I must not even choose his friends. I feel as if I am alone in this marriage, whatever I try discussing with his is either I am on PMS or he would walk out on me without listerning to what I am trying to say. I am desperately confussed because the next day he will pretend as if nothing happened the previous night and move on. What am I supposed to do in this kind os situation. Please help.
Posted by: BETH Mar 8 2010 at 18:41
It's very difficult to communicate with an alcoholic. There is Alanon, which you might find helpful, though it doesn't suit everyone. Also, you could get a piece of amythist and put it under his pillow. You need to wash it each day for a few minutes under running cold water, and to tell it that you want it to stop your husband drinking.
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