Being alone

i really feel like im going to be alone for the rest of my life i mean im in highschool, freshman and all my friends had boyfriends or still have boyfriends and i feel so left out. people say im really cool alittle shy but really cute or pretty and all that crap if i was really those things i wouldnt be feeling the way i am right now...right??. people find it so hard to belive that a girl like me never had a boyfriend it really pisses me off i mean why would i lie about something like that... i like this really cute though. tall, from new york like me, i always wonder what he thinks about me and if that beatiful girl he always talk to wasnt here would he ever have talked to me and get to try to know me ...idk its feels like my heart is getting stabbed by needles everytime i see them together it makes me feel like i dont deserve happiness or anyone ughhh i just dont know

You sound like a sweet person. Being a freshman in high school has lots of ups and downs. While you may feel different and wonder why you haven't had a BF, and you may not believe me, remember you have plenty of time.....your life is just beginning. Don't believe everything you hear about other kids and their so-called BFs/GFs...half of it isn't even true. In the meantime, relax, find things you enjoy doing and people you enjoy hanging out with, and right when you're not even looking for it, you'll find a BF and soon enough, love. As for the tall cutie, you can try approaching him, rather than hoping he'll notice you. Ask him a homework question or make a remark about last weeks football game, or whatever you can bring up of mutual interest. You deserve all the happiness in the world...be patient.....you'll find it and many other great things in your life. Take care, Tara

Hey not sure if you're still reading the comments but I know a couple girls like you. Who also gelt that way but were not ugly or even average looking.. They were pretty, they were thin, etc BUT what i noticed they all had in common were not only being shy but came off unapproacable 24.7 and if i never knew them personally i would of thought they looked like a bitch because of the way they carry themselfs (no offence to them.).. They didn't realize they were coming off that way and i advised them to smile more, dont walk around with a 'still face'' make people comfortable the instance they see you (with a smile.) because believe it or not guys are very nervous when approaching girls, some more then others.