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my girlfriend said she wanted to have a break from our relationship and moved out to stay with a friend for a while she still comes over and spends time with me and says she does miss me and the laughs and things we did but her feelings have dissappeared but she still does little things that suggest her feelings are still in there somewhere i had a long think about what i was doing wrong and changed things about myself and she says she see that ive changed..when i ask her to come back she always says in time when i suggest it...anyone have any ideas what i can do to impress her and win her back again

Any suggestions what I can do here

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Hi Derek, From what you have written it seems to me that you have a view point that in some way thinks she has lost her feelings for you, but you also think on the inside they are still there? On the other hand you say she tells you she misses you. So over all are you still feeling guilty, maybe needing to forgive and move on from the past. I think that the best way to get past this is to accept the current situation and not try to have so much control of it. She as everyone is free to be themselves, there is nothing preventing you from being yourself either. Saying that focus on the fun things in life to be a bit more happy. because ultimately a relationship between 2 people should be positive and supportive in each others needs with what both may need to do. It could be you may need to get into a new hobby whether it be sport, art, music, new book genre. Key is be happy and allow other happy peeps in your life. Hope that helps.

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