Boyfriend blows up

well watching a movie on a friday night after a week of hard work, the movie is a lite fun movie, or so i though, friends with kids, he puts his two cents worth in and i can't here the movie for several minutes so i go alaong with it and answer his quetions and then say i have to rewind this so after about the second time i say lets rewinde this he throws the remote at me so we contiue on and then there was a scene about all the couples getting together and the one single girl had another guy there and interacting with her kid and all the other women liked him and he said to me do you see what is going on and i said yea it remindedme of when my kids were young and i was married and all of us couples got together, however he said don''t you see what is going on and i said what, he said where is his kids and i said well probably becaue too early in the relationshp and he said you don't see what is gonig on and then he said something about cutting them out , and i said what do you mean that who is cutting who out, i just asked clarifying questions and he just started blowing up yelling at me , telling me either i was clueless or i didn't know , and his voice just esclated and i decided that when he starts that i am disengaging and walking out in the past i would try and convince hinm or stay and answer his questions and play his games this time i did not, and when i left the room , he kept going on a good minute or so after i left , the thing for me is how do i repsond to that the next day , do i be nice an act like nothing happend or just be mad , i know he will never change and he thinks he is justified long story behind his blowing up at me, but i actually lef the room this time and i guess to me is how do i act towards him , do i say oh i see you are in a better mood and i apreciate you not yellingat me or how do i respond to him

I'll be blunt: Why are you even with this guy? I don't see the word "love" anywhere in your story, it only makes me wonder. And you have a child together? I don't think he's a very good guy, and you don't seem to make him happy either. It just seems to me that you both may need to separate and find other people. If you feel like you can't get out of the relationship, then COMMUNICATE with him, and see if he's willing to work out a solution with you that benefits not just you two or your kid(s), but everyone. He sounds scary and abusive, so when you talk to him, be FIRM and CONFIDENT, let him know where you stand and that he doesn't have to have a problem with it. You only want to DISCUSS about the problems, not argue, so try to create the most peace as best as possible! I sure hope he cooperates.. Tell him what you've been thinking and feeling, and ask for the same from him. Good luck, take care!