His heart

I have been married for 3 years now and it seems like we're growing apart. I use to be head over heels in love with my husband but lately I feel as though I resent him. I joined the army after he quit his job and recently reenlisted for 4 more years of service because he still doesn't have a job and I fear financial instability. How can I get this resentment out my heart and pure love back in my ways and actions.

Babygrl, this is a sad situation because your marriage is still so new. I've taken a particular interest with your situation because I have perceived the same resentment feeling from my wife (of 21 years). If you like, I can offer some possible insight to what may be happening. How old are you? I 'm assuming you are in your early twenties. I'll await your response before I make any comments.