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Hi....could u pls help me...m feelin a bit helpless in dis situation.. Me n my bf r doin mbbs in india..n as u noe ts a bit long course..nd we hav to depend on our parents financially until we actually strt earnin..wich can take sm tym.. Nw m prblm s...my bf n his mother had an argumnt wich really hurt his ego nd i dunno how to make him feel better... His mother had a little fight with his father nd i guess was upset bout dat..nw wen he went in few minutes later to ask for sm money (he takes almost weekly as per requirment) .. His mother said angrily," she doesnt hav it..nd that he always spend money recklessly..".. Dis hurt him so much..dat i havnt seen him dis much upset till nw...?i hav tried to make him understnd dat she mst hav been upset bout da fight n not meant it actually...he sn't ready to listen n says he"ll never take money frm his mother....n v r in a live-in situation..n nw if he stays adamant at wat he has decided..v might hav to move out too..dat i dn"t want..bt m ready to b wd him in his decision...but still i dun think he s right... How do i make him understand...???..he s very stubborn...bt i love him..cn't see him so upset...pls help

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First of all, your text is painful to read. I don't know what "mbbs" could be. For his fight with his mother -- Just support him emotionally and look at the situation objectively; point out what was right / wrong about it and give him rational responses and help him clear his mind of it. He needs a clear mind to help straighten out what the best option is for the time being. Don't move out yet -- the family is the #1 support for young adults and teens. What is he using the money for? Go get jobs if possible.. I don't think this is a huge problem honestly.

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