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How to make peace with the insult?

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In 2014, I came late to a class. Teacher made me sit on the floor. After a while, he said "Your father has paid fees. Move this side so you can see the board and take value of the fees." There was no room to move, so I said "Sir, it's okay." He said "Its okay if you dont take value of the fees?" And entire class laughed. I am not able to sleep and live my life. That insult is buring in my mind entire time. I know manifestation and it works. What should be the good revenge so that my mind feels peace?

How to make peace with the insult?

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Hi Sensitive_Soul, "In 2014, I came late to a class. Teacher made me sit on the floor." How old were you? To me, being made to sit on the floor, it sounds like you're six or something! He WHAT? "After a while, he said "Your father has paid fees. Move this side so you can see the board and take value of the fees." What's he talking to you about FEES for? That's none of your business, it's your father's! "There was no room to move, so I said "Sir, it's okay." He said "Its okay if you dont take value of the fees?" Oh, are we supposed to believe he's that stupid that he didn't realise you meant that you were fine where you were? "And entire class laughed." Did he laugh at his own 'joke' first and they took his cue? "I am not able to sleep and live my life. That insult is buring in my mind entire time." Yeah, I don't blame you. Sounds like he was having a pop at you. Mind if I ask: had your Father been late in paying the fees? What does this man teach and how senior a member of staff is he, i.e. his title (e.g. deputy head/head of year tutor...)? "I know manifestation and it works. What should be the good revenge so that my mind feels peace?" Wait for the next time and just roll your eyes. If you're the only person for him to take his bad mood out on him then he must be pretty beeping lonely. At the same time, feel sorry for this pathetic man whom picks on (no offence, but compared to him) kids. Bet he wouldn't say Boo to your father. Hmm...maybe there was some tension between them (which your father came out of on-top) and this was teacher's 'revenge'? Do he and your father get on, usually? Is this teacher nice or okay towards you, normally? RSvP.

How to make peace with the insult?

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Doh! - sorry - I've just realised that this happened in 2014! (My eyes saw 24, oddly enough.) Why, do you think, have you been unable to get over it? Was this 'clashing' habitual between he and you (or, FROM he TO you), and this particular act the 'final straw'? Do you recall him ever taking the piss/showing-up any of the other pupils prior to or following this incident?

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