Problem wid my bf

I have been in relationship since 1 year,I think my boyfriend is v possessive and i hate that ,he doesnt talk or mingle with anyone ,he doesnt have friends of his own and he always wants to be with me,we both studying in same college i m finding it hard to stay with him always , i want to be spend sometime with my friends also but he doesnt like that and argues with me everytime,he even started interfering with my carrier and is least bothered about my intrests .He gets really angry whenever i talk with anyother guy ,he cant even bear me saying "hi" to other boys whom i hve known for a long time.I really love him ,i tried explaing him many times but he doesnt change and im not really happy.just help me with this situation..thank you

hi! I am not an expert but will try to help you because i know the way usually a boy's mind would work. you are being very lenient with the boy, i guess, Usually boys tend to be pushy on girls for their way of living and underestimate the girl's interest if the girl is not little strict/firm with them. Be a little firm with him, and say that his introvert nature might really affect your relationship, although it will never because you love him, but you have to show him this way. DON'T EXPLAIN HIM. Tell him that this is your personal space and you need it . Because he is very possessive, he will surely think about that.

Your b/f sounds very insecure and needs to get a handle on his fears so they do not push him to be so insanely jealous. It is his problem, not yours. He needs to deal and not expect you to behave in ways that make him feel better. If he does not deal with his fears and insecurities, then he is immature and controlling. You may love him and he may be a wonderful person, but he may be really bad boyfriend material at this point.