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Should I tell him I'm interested?

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To make a long story short, I have a male friend that I'm attracted to. I've known him for about 5 months and when I first met him, I had a little crush on him. We've become pretty close friends in the last two months (not best friends or anything, but we're definitely friends). We haven't hooked up, but we almost did a few times--we never actually kissed, mostly because I was too afraid to actually do anything. I get really nervous when I'm with him. Since then, he's started seeing a woman. They've been dating for about a month, but I don't know how serious it is. Basically, I don't know for sure that he's interested in me, but I think it's safe to say that at one point he was. Should I tell him that I'm interested in him? Should I just suck it up and deal with it and see if he stops seeing this woman? To any men out there, how would you feel about a girl telling your she likes you as more than a friend?

Should I tell him I'm interested?

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Okay, this is going to shuck a**, but you shouldn't tell him your feelings. You had the chance when he was single, but you didn't say anything. NOW, he have someone else. You have to be respectful and respect his relationship with this woman. Yesh, it shucks, but I know that if you was dating him, you wouldn't want another woman to try to ruin anything for you, so don't do it to someone else. Stay strong though, Love.

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