A question of affair....

I've been married to my husband for six years now, and we're still going strong. We've had the typical ups and downs, but nothing too serious. I love him, we're still sexually attracted to each other, and have a pretty typical sex life for a couple with a two young kids. In other words - I'm satisfied. About a week ago at a party, a guy we both know had been drinking and stepped over the line about flirting - he kissed me. I kissed him back. I have always found him attractive, so it was easy to do so. I stopped and pushed him away because of my husband, and I told him so. After a couple of days, he text me and asked me to meet and talk to him about that night. I agreed at first because I sincerely thought he would apologize or beg me not to tell or something like that, since we're friends and would see each other again -- but after I agreed, he got flirty again. I told him that this was not my intention, that I really was against the affair. TBH, I'm not entirely against it. I am only against it because I know it would upset my husband, but in reality I've been in an open relationship before and enjoyed it immensely, but we all make sacrifices for the ones we love (this guy doesn't know any of this though). Anyway... I told him again I couldn't because if we got caught it would devastate both of our families, and I said I'm likely the worst person to have an affair with because I'm happy with my relationship AND we know each other to closely; so pick somebody else if he must. Today, he text me again and wants to meet for coffee, in a public place, no funny business, to talk to me about why he wants me specifically. I don't know what to do. One half of me is saying Don't Go because he's obviously persistent, but the other half is very curious as to what he has to say. I feel especially guilty that my husband doesn't know about any of this even though it's supposedly just "talking", AND I am not entirely opposed to the idea of the affair... It isn't that I am dissatisfied with my current relationship, I have just always enjoyed having new partners. Not really the best of excuses, but it's honest. Should I meet him??

No matter how curious you are about why he wants you, DON'T GO! I'm sure you made vows on your wedding day. And those vows meant a lot to your husband, so is your love. Don't ruin your marriage just for this guy. He have no respect for your marriage. Kissing you, then wanting to meet you now. If you love your husband, then stop all of this nonsense. If I were you, I won't ruin my relationship for nothing. -Why did you fall for your husband? -Why did you marry him? -Why would you want another man? Think about these things.