Is it a silly crush??????

Ive got a boyfriend an a baby we have been together for 4 years but ive got feelings for my brothers mate he lives by me hes younger than me by 3 years and i dont no what it is about him that im attracted to but i carnt stop thinking about him ive told my friend and she said its just a silly crush but it doesnt feel like it. He gave me his phone number when i got my new phone and i envited him back to mine and he came nothing happend. I keep telling my self that i dont like him in that way but i do his mom is havin a party at the weekend and im invited im not gonna go because of the situation. he doesnt no how i feel and its really hard when im with my boyfriend if im thinking about someone else wot should i do?

It probably is just a crush and the reason you can't stop thinking about this other boy is because your so worried it could affect what you have at the moment, and youre trying to find a way to reassure yourself that you dont like this boy. Your not doing anything wrong by having feelings for him... and the fact that nothing happened when he came back to your house shows that youre worrying about something over nothing (if that is the right phrase) Just remember never leave the one you love for the one you like! Hope i helped you! x