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Any hope for my ex to want me again

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Me and my ex was in a long distance relationship for a year and 2 months. Im 24 from NY and she is 19 from tampa fl, we met only once for a week in november 2011, She never had a real boyfriend before me she told me early on. We met on twitter and we fell in love overtime. We had our issues but what relationship doesn't. We talked every single day over skype video chat, told each other everything there is about each other. We were really inlove and we said it constantly. Then almost a year later, May of this year i find out that she tried getting a boy number over twitter. She tried lying about it but she couldn't deny it. I forgave her but it left me really insecure, the most ive ever been. Than she tells me she cant do it anymore, she cant be with anymore. That crushed me and i couldnt let her go, the more i tried to keep her the more i made things worse. We've made plans for me to move to tampa and i was on my way there next month for good but things just werent getting any better so i decided to give her the thing she wanted most freedom. I told her that if she didnt want me its ok even tho it wasnt at the time. And i told her we should never be in contact because it'll hurt me to see her move on. Its healthy if we just moved on and stayed away from each other. Now i forgot to mention that she was talking to this guy that lives in tampa before i broke up with her, she did everything to to try and talk to him, even it meant lying to me. I know he would tell her that she deserved better and told her all the things she wanted to hear. So after two weeks of us breaking up she sleeps with him. It crushed me when i found out. Its been four months since we broken up now, They fooled around off and on. But i just found out that he doesn't act like he wants her anymore, he treats her bad and she's depressed over this. She claims to really love this guy. She use to say i had everything she wanted, now she's saying some really hurtful things over twitter these past four months. Let me break down what she said from the time we broke up til now. She was insecure She always felt i like spanish girls more than black girls which isnt true, i dont discriminate, so the night we broke up she said to me "now you can go have mixed babies with all your spanish exes". Then she named all the girls that i could have sex with now that im free, i thought that was very unnessasary. Then after the break up she tweeted about her having sex with this guy. We had each other email and twitter passwords so she probably thinks i still can see all her tweets she making and i can but she dont know that for sure. Then she tweeted that im the worst looking guy she ever dated, then she said she never had a real boyfriend(that hurt me), than she said she never had a real relationship and she wants to know what it feels like to be in love. She's depressed now because she left me for a guy who doesnt want her, he only wants to have sex with her. She still hasnt been in a real relationship according to her and she depressed cause she feels like theres nobody out there for her. Do you think that she will ever try and come back to me or is it all over for good? Good advise needed. By the way i have been busy doing my own thing and living my life, im just curious to know from your personal opinion would she come back.

Any hope for my ex to want me again

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ya shell come back but she is not the girl for you if u take her back she will do it again

Any hope for my ex to want me again

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Move on! This is the most genuine advise you can get.

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