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The choice between two guys

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Okay so there are two guys that i am very interested in. The first one i met about 3 months ago and i thought he was cute but he is very shy and we never talked much. I have a few classes with him and we talk a little but its all small talk, he never showed any interest. Although a few days ago he asked me to lunch! We also went to lunch the day after that and a movie the day after that. But we have't kissed or anything, we haven't even talked about liking each other. He has left town for the break so i wont see him for over a month. Now this other guy i have been involved with for the last month. When we first met and started to hangout he told me he was really looking for a relationship and at the time i wasn't either so i told him that i wasn't either. But as we have been hanging out more and more i have really fallen for him. The last few times we have hung out i tried to tell him how i feel and that i really like him and i want to be with him but i chickened out! The only down fall about the second guy is that at times i feel like he really isnt that interested but when he shows interest then i really feel it!! He has just got me super confused! I dont know what i should do. HELP

The choice between two guys

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Although you may not realize it, you have already answered your own dilemma within your paragraph seeking advice. You rave about the second guy (the one that you think you are falling for), whereas the first guy you mention vague things, not really emphasizing on emotion. It is clear to ME and clear to YOU (when you really think about it), that you really prefer the second guy. I would have a serious talk with him and ask him how he feels about you and if you could try a relationship.

The choice between two guys

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Hi! I believe you should pick the second guy. "When you fall in love with two people, pick the second one. If you'd really loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." -Johnny Depp

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