Engaged and unsure

The man I'm engaged to is very good to me I know he loves me. My concern is he has been divorced for 9 years and he still has his wedding video, our first Christmas ornament and other things that represent this life with his xwife prior to the birth of their two children(20 and 16). Should I be concerned that he is not let go of his past with her when they were a couple or am I reading to much into it. We have been together for 10 months and he is pushing for a wedding.

Please do not let him rush you into a wedding. Take your time and enjoy your relationship. The fact that he as the stuff either means (1) He is as not over the wife (2) He is holding on to them for his children. If they make you uncomfortable ask him to put them away out of site or ask him if he is truly over her. Still dont rush a wedding its a big mistake I made once and he had things of his ex and all that after we got married he became someone I didnt know and changed alot. Give it time a red flag I learned through private consueling is rushing things if someone is pushing for something then its a red flag. Please allow yourself some more time.