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Okay so I'm stuck in a very sticky situation right now... And I really need some opinions and advice. I've been dating this boy for a bit over 8 months. This is my longest relationship. I'm 16 years old. I lost my virginity to him. Well to cut to the chase.. There is this boy that goes to my school. He's probably the best looking guy in my school. I've had a small crush on him since last year. But it wasn't really a crush it was more of an obsession like you would get over a famous actor or something. Like you want it but you know it will only happen in your dreams kind of thing. Well recently he's been talking to me a lot and he's telling me he wants to get with me. I have cheated once in my life on my ex boyfriend. I felt like crap after but it wasn't the reason for our breakup. And I told this to Jeremy, the guy that wants to get with me. And he said I felt like that because it probably wasn't worth it. And he was right. And Jeremy told me he can make it worth my while. Now this is like a dream come true for me except it really sucks cause I don't wanna cheat. It would break my boyfriends heart. He loves me so much and I really do love him too. I don't know what to do.

I need advice.. Please help!

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You are 16 and getting into too many situations with these boys. You need to grow up and catch up to your hormones. This Mr. popular wants to "get with you". OF COARSE HE DOES. At your age boys want to get with girls period. I am all for equality but when it comes to sex at your age, you don't have it mentally nor the right DNA to be on the winning side of this. You're young. Pace yourself. Focus on you and your boyfriend. If it is not what you want, end it. Then figure out your next young love, not conquest.

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