I am very confused... help!!!

I'm a 28years old lady. I've been friend with a guy and we started dating about for months ago. We talked about all areas of our lives, we asked questions and all. Just few weeks ago,I discovered he had been lying about him being a graduate. The night I got to know, I got really pissed and told him I wasn't happy he lied to me. He called to apologise and also begged that I tell no one. By the next day, he had called like everyone I know, telling them that I was angry with him and he doesn't know why. Told them I get angry at every little thing. When I got to know, I got more upset because I wasn't suppose to tell anyone but he kept talking. Talked to my mother,pastor and friends. I was forced to tell my mum the whole thing and she spoke with him. Now, he's spreading the news of how I used him and broke up with him.... But I never did. Whenever we try to talk over this, he insults me like always.. After which, he comes apologising again that he was angry and that was why he spoke in that manner. I like this guy but he's been talking ill of me since the incidence.. I'm so confused right now, I need advice pls!!!

Hi Cinderella....pls don't judge me by my username as i hv kept it just for fun....Well now lets talk about ur problem....i don't know how far u hv gone in ur relationship with this guy....but as per whatever u have written about him he is not worth to be with in relationship. Any guy who genuinely respects u would never spread rumors about u....so its better if u ignore this guy n move ahead in ur life...i can tell u this as i have done this in my life....people say tht to make any relationship successful we need to have love n trust...but my dear the most important thing which is required to make a successful relationship is "Respect" for each other...All the best dear

You should stay away from this guy. Just ignore him and move on because he will always lie. You can find better friends and boyfriend that will treat you with respect like you treat them.