Fiance problems

My fiance and i have been together for a year but have only been living together for about 4 months im pregnant now...i have had many problems with him lying to me about hangong out with girls drinking etc... i am against porn while in a relationship i feel its disrespectful uet he still does it after i caught him this last time he has seemed to stoo since but that wasnt long ago.. i cant trust him and he doesnt rly listen when i ask him to change how he acts toward me especially now that im pregnant, but i really do love him.....im stuck :(

Well as a woman with a similar story who now has an almost 1 yo daughter. Things are probably going to get better once the baby is born if your fiance is a respectable guy. But only a little better and you will be dealing with disrespect and lying in front of your baby. If you fight and argue now you will more when the baby arrives. Guys and porn will always be can't really fight it. Primal instincts as long as its only porn I wouldn't care. Maybe try suggesting watching it together or watch it on your own and see if that helps you. You are NOT stuck love only goes so far when you are being disrespected and lied to. You should be treated the same way you treat him, do you treat him badly? Because if not then why would you let the person who is supposed to love you unconditionally and forever treat you that way?? Easier said than done I know and I should be taking my own advice. I am just letting you know it only gets harder when your baby is here. Good luck

From my life experiences, i do not think he will change but continue with the same behaviour and you will be the one hurting. There seems a lack of respect for you and does he really love you,the way you love him. Otherwise he wouldnt do the things he does. You cant force him to change ,he needs to do it for your relationship and your child. My advice is see how it goes but if he carries on then you need to end it . Sorry for being blunt. all the best