My husband needs help

My Husband grew up in a dysfunctional family. His mom was abused....they handled problems by not speaking ie his mom and aunt have not spoken for 30+ years...His mom took me on as a daughter....He and I had some issues that I discussed with her...she went in on him....end result they don't speak....He is currently not working I take care of everything he tells everyone he provides and is always accusing me of looking at another man.....How do I help him with his insecurities...He feels I dont respect him or is this just his way of getting his way (tantrum) please help

I wouldnt talk to her about it because when family members become involved it usually only results in them being against one person in the relationship. And she wouldnt help anyway due to her not dealing with problems well. And in the end you and your boyfriend are the only ones who can sort the problem out

I wouldnt talk to her about it because when family members become involved it usually only results in them being against one person in the relationship. And she wouldnt help anyway due to her not dealing with problems well. And in the end you and your boyfriend are the only ones who can sort the problem out. So you need to talk to him about it he clearly has insecurities which is probably due to something that has happened in his past and the only way that you can fix this problem is by him accepting that he has insecurities and going to his doctor to talk to someone about it. And he wont you should leave contact details and maybe some information too and go. This will be a wake up call for him to let him know that you hsve had enough