Not sure how to deal with this, I've never been on this type of situation before

Soo...I have been sort of seeing this guy for about 2 months now...it started off as FWB( friends with benefits), but it seems the more we hang out the more feelings I grow. And I'm not sure but I think.he feels.the same. He's take me out for dinner, suprises me with my favorite tea.exactly how I like it when he comes over, he even said he missed me after not seeing me for a week....he always wants.to cuddle,and we have even hung out with out the sex,which was awesome. There are so many things that make me wonder what's going on in his mind, what he thinks Bout " us". I just don't know what to think anymore...I want to ask him and communicate my feelings.but I don't want to scare him away...

I think the answer to your uncertainty might be found in the reason(s) why the relationship started out as FWB? FWB usually indicates that both parties don't want any deep emotional commitment. It seems things have changed for you, and so you want to 're-negotiate' the original agreement, but I suspect that whether you can achieve that, or not, will depend on his original reasons for wanting FWB only? Perhaps you can initiate a conversation around those reasons and get some idea of his current thinking without seeming too probing?

I don't know.how to bring up the converstion with out freaking him out...I know he cares about me, there are a lot of things that he dose that make me know that...I don't want to ruin things

Why would he be freaked out at any suggestion of going steady?

I'm not sure...maybe I'm over thinking things, I don't want to scare him away by being to forward...maybe that's what he is waiting for...I wish I could read his mind lol...he even goes as far as calling me babe and telling me he misses me...lol I must spy.d like a real head case I just can't make a decision on how to go about this whole thing

I think you might be right about over thinking this - you don't want him to sign a contract do you? lol You could sound him out in a jokey way, e.g. if he's affectionate in public, say: "steady, people will think we're a couple!" ... and laugh. If he just laughs, then laugh with him, but it will be an opportunity for him to say: "I thought we were", or something similar. There are lots of ways you can sound him out, such as wistful remarks about where you will be in a years time, what the future may hold, etc.

It seems that you noth really like eachother so you need to ask him how he feels. Hope this helps.