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Confession gone wrong?

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my partner and i have been together for nearly 3 years,before we got together i used to wear womens undies regularly as i preferred them, then i met my GF and never told her about my love for women's thongs etc , as i wore mens boxers when around her....but a few days ago i confessed to her that i miss wearing knickers,...the response i had was slightly confusing.......she was very angry that i had kept this from her....and we argued to a point where she was going to stay away for a few days? but then she changed her mind and said we can get threw this? and nothing has been mentioned since! i dont know what to think or do.....does this mean she is going to accept i wear them and allow me? or she is just putting the whole thing to the back of her mind and forget about it! arghhhh who knows? any suggestions? .....i was trying to be honest!

Confession gone wrong?

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It seems from what you wrote that she is trying to forget about it because she hasn't talked about it since. She obviously loves you to come back but this is something that alot of women struggle to understand. So you need to think about how much doing it means to you and whether you could be happy and not do it. And if you feel do then you should leave it in the past tell her that you have done this and move on with your relationship. But if you feel that you wouldbe unhappy then you need to talk to her about it and maybe she would accept and maybe not. Hope this helps.

Confession gone wrong?

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hey LAURENXXX thanks for your reply.....it makes sense what your saying but....i would like to carry on wearing them with her consent....but i dont want to rock the boat again! its such a tricky situation....im thinking maybe if i bring it up in a jokingly manor and see how she reacts! ....any thoughts? lol

Confession gone wrong?

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u have been fake wit her bro I don't think u should bring it up anymore cause if she would've accepted it she would've mentioned it or brought up the topic so leave it alone u never know wht she's thinkin she might b disgusted by it mayb thts why she hasn't mentioned it mayb she will regret meeting u cause u never mentioned it to her to begin wit and she wouldn't of approved of it back thn so she wouldn't of got into something wit u so if I was u leave alone don't bein it up until she brings up I she doesn't thn tht means she doesn't approve of it

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