Relationship problem

hi all i would like some adviced about a relationship broblem.... i been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and it seems it fallin apart... i love this girl to death and i would do anything to make her happy... but things are going wrong... i have seen her with other guy ... giving her lift home and shes going out to pubs and disco alone... i'm getting hurt so much as she comes home late and she 's tells me hes juts a friend but i dont want her to leave me and i feel so alone.. if any of you guys have any advice please dont hesitate to write it down ... with regards erion

Hi Erion, It was so sad to read your email, you seem so desparate for this girl. It is clear from what you wrote that she doesn't have the same respect or feelings that you posess for the relationship. You need to gain your confidence and self-esteem back. Somestimes if a person comes across as desparate it can actually turn the other person off. My advice is try to sit her down and talk with her and let her know how you are feeling. If she doesn't respond then you need to make a firm stand and have some dignity and self-respect by informing her that it is over. If she values your feelings and the relationship then she will appreciate what you have to say. If she doesn't change her behaviour then I am sorry to say that it is time to move on. You will find someone else to love and who will respect you and the relationship. It may be hard to see right now , but mark my words you will. You don't deserve this sort of treatment and her behaviour is a clear sign that she isn't interested. Saas

i really thank u so much saasfor the advice u told me u really did put a smile on my face. and i m trying to move on as this world its full of other nice people who can deserve me :D with regards

i have been in the very same position with my last relationship. going out not coming home till late or early in the morning, not calling to say where she is. trust me it is not worth the heart ache. do what the las guy said. if that doesnt work move on. unless she is willing to be honest with you.