Is what mine is his and vice versa when married

i married by partner of 4 years last october and moved into a flat which he owns outright...when we have argued he has threatened to throw me out and change the locks which has made me feel insecure....when we last made up and i explained how insecure this made me feel he offered voluntarily to put the flat in our joint names...after cancelling several solicitors appointments he now says he never understood what joint ownership meant, and now he refuses to do it and has stormed out (again) accusing me of trying to con him out of half his house. Am i being unreasonable to think that when married...what we each have is shared?

Hello, You have a insecurity, you better go find something for yourself. Why do you want his share of hard work money. If you have contributed anything towards it, then it is ok to include you. Otherwise for your insecutity part please go make yourself secured by finding a job and start conttibuting. You cannot just have everything of his half. His concerns are very well justified. What if you break up and why should he part half of his property. If you are still feeling insecured better leave him alone and go get a secured person. Just becos you are married you cannot automatically deserve everything of his. You better start building and contributing towards your insecurity. You must be ashamed to take the other half even if he offers it. Go start earning and have something in your name and then when he comes and asks to have his half , you will know what he is doing is justified.