Should I marry him?

In November I became engaged to Matt. He moved in and it was great until about two months ago. I'm not very girlie, I don't wear makeup often, which is one of the reasons he liked me because I was the only girl at this party not all dolled up. We dated for about 9 months when he asked me to marry him. We set the date for march the following spring. But in December we decided to wait a little longer. We've been living together since before we became engaged. And now it's almost the date that we had set for the wedding. He has started becoming very upset whenever he's here and leaves for work and sits in his car till work starts. He finds ways to avoid being here. I keep thinking about all the things I put aside because it bothers him. I gave up something I love for him. I love to sing. I sing fairly good, I was even in choir in school. But it annoys him when I sing. This week he's been staying at a friends house that's closer to work cause they moved him from days to nights. Yesterday I started singing which is something I haven't done for almost a year. After I realized that I broke down and cried. My mom said she can see me again since he hasn't been around. She said I've been hiding too much. I feel better and worse. I don't know if we're just in a hard place or if this is gods way of telling me its not meant to be. Help me. I just need someone to tell me what to do that doesn't know me. Everybody tells me what would be best for me, but I need an outside opinion. Thank you for bearing with me through the long explanation here and for your help.

Maybe he thinks your going to bring up the wedding, and he doesn't want to hear about that. But also, talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him whats going on. With the singing, he has to respect that's what you love to do. He shouldn't be the reason why you stop. I think you should carry out that dream and tell him you want him to support you through out.

He sounds like someone who doesn't care about you anymore, or someone who is actually going through some sort of problem. Communication solves everything. Good luck, and remember, you both deserve the best from each other!