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So last year I met this girl we met at a show (concert) we really connected that night became aqquainted, and she actually gave me her number. We texted and the thing about it is when we text or when me and her talk we really ask questions or describe ways the way they should be discussed. We hung out with a few of her friends a week later or so and of course only got to know each other better when I talked she listened, she asked, she laughed and even her friends noticed which I know they didn't like. For a few months we would text everyday in the morning through noon whenever she'd replied late she's had the respect to apologize one time she even wrote to me saying " I know I don't always reply in the best of times." or something like that. This one time she had to buy a dress and asked me to go with her she wanted a guys opinion on how she looked I honestly was blown by how beautiful she looked. Whenever she goes to shows with other friends (guys too) she'll be with me the whole time. One show that we went to it was different the plan was to meet her up there or her vice versa at the time we had assigned to meet. I was there first and she wasn't, I of course told her I was there already. She replied to me telling me that she was going to go there later, that she had to meet up some friends first, she showed up about two hours into the show or so, she did show up with friends and some guy who I guess had taken her to the show. He introduced himself to me and of course not to be rude I introduced myself with a smile but I knew what he was doing, it's an introduction two guys do when they both know they like the same person with this he thought he was 1upping me of course he was also doing it out if sheer courtesy he did not have any intention to get to know me, anyway I was upset so of course Iafe an excuse and left early I had told her it was work related. She never brought it up to me but I know she was mad, she's a poet and she had written a poem telling a guy to piss off. I had read it and of course I asked her if things were okay between us or if there was anything that was bothering her? She didn't reply at all for about a week. I didn't try to bother her because I really didn't want to risk making it worse or losing her completely. After a week she sent me a message on saying "hi" I was happy again but I noticed it was almost as if she realized or either that felt bad about it to this day I'm still almost not sure. Of course we started talking again and she invited me to another show. I had told myself that if the same night as the other one repeated that I was leaving. Its only recently at the last shows we've been to that she's held my hand, these past show I went to I got to dance with her honestly it was one of the happiest moments of my life, it was the prom dance I never had the honor to dance. Anyways sometimes I will say things to her very emotional things I guess it's my way of giving her a sign or trying to tell her I have feelings in a different way. After this last show it's been different she does take longer to reply, she's a busy person but then again has time for her phone, I know theres other guys that talk to her and I know that they like her mainly for her looks, or because she's wise, smart, and a damn good poet. Most guys only want that as a lust because she's smart she'll make me smart attitude, but the reality is I love this girl I know I'm in love with her because when I think of her my heart beats fast and when I'm around her it's almost like I have but yet don't have words to say, they couldn't and I know this for a fact got to know her like I did the conversations we've had that went for hours and the second time we ever saw each other when she smiled me walking me outside I knew that she knew I was different. I really want to tell her how I feel, I want her to know, but then I'm scared, scared of not only of what she'll say, but because I know other guys like her and for all I know one or most of em probably have told her and she rejected them, then it makes me think that she doesn't want to really be in a relationship. I really want to tell her but in person. Should I tell her? Or should I move on

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I would tell her but don't just say I like you say something like "I like you as a person and I think that you are an amazing woman that deserves a good guy to look after her". If you don't act on it now you could lose her forever. I had that opertunity once and I didn't take it and it literally drove me to the edge of a hotels roof. Don't end up like me and my mistakes.

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Thanks a lot BRO. I will definitely try that. She actually wrote another one today which makes it once again confusing due to the fact that the poem probably talks about someone she did like, it\'s also confusing in the sense that it could be me I\'d really like to message you the poem so you can tell me what you think. And I do find it pretty deep that you were pushed to that point, Im glad that your still here with us and that you shared that with a complete stranger. Once again thank you BRO. :)

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