I need a qustion solved

well im dealing with post trumatic stress syndrom.Just for starters and cooking cleaning paying the bills raising the 3 children dog cat also taking care of the wife i realy do love so much shes got boarder line problems learing and so miled mental disabilitys i run at most time also a small biz but all theses stresses alone are taking a toll.not smart enuff to help me in the stressfull thing not veing nasty at her but my heads about to pop none of her family can help do to thiefs and crimes the do so as far as help hum would finding the right couple to help in any form help?

Hi you dont say why you are facing PTS, but this in itself makes people very stressed out and look at things in a way that makes even the smallest issue blow up even bigger. My wife suffers from PTS due to many years of sexual abuse as a child, even now and 18yrs afterwards, these issues are still with her, I walk on eggshells most of the time. I feel for you and understand in some ways your pain, due to my wifes issues I was placed on Prozac, I feel the reason for this was due to not finding time for myself and making sure I remain mentally strong. I feel you need that "me time" to find your own "level ground" and be able to take a step back from the situation, this way you can look at things in a different light, assess what is most important in your life and sort them out first, everythin else needs to wait GOOD LUCK Regards GINGER-TAZ