Is she sending me a signal?

so i broke up w my gf like 3 months ago ..we met in a foreign country and lived there together in my place on the beach.. we had a bad break up but i wanted her back.. i ended up leaving the country and so did she . after things not working out where she went she returned back to where we met to live and of course all my friends welcomed her back with open arms. after not talking to her for about 2 months she emails me saying how thing arnt working out for her in that part of the world and how some kids snatched her laptop bag. SO i gave her a laptop i had in my place I still have in town .. then no contact for about a month she emails me and sends some passive agressive messages which she excused by saying she woke up on the other side of the bed. so a few days ago she started messaging me again and telling me her roomate (whom i warned her about before) is a pill head blah blah blah . so i offered up my place there since im back in the states working.. its her last two weeks in town ...she knows i want her back i think but she is staying at my place with one of my best friends as a roommate..is she trying to send me some messages or am i just over thinking it?

Hi! As a woman, I think she is just considering you a friend. I would not say she is "playing" you or using you because nothing is extreme enough in your story to make me think she is taking advantage of you. She may or may not know your intentions so maybe get them out once, my vote after she is not in your place, if she tries to contact you again. Don't point fingers or accuse just simply state fact and personal feelings. Otherwise consider her a friend and decide where you want your boundaries to be. I would strongly advise against crossing any lines you draw especially if you choose not to talk to her about how you still feel. Hope this helps and good luck!