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Hurt beyond means

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Ok so I found out about 3 weeks ago that my boyfriend of 3yrs was sexting several women and exchanging nude pics! He so stupid he left his password to his online Verizon account and I got in and saw all the numbers he was texting one was an ex girlfriend others he met on a dating site. I also found all the pics saved to the account as well! I live with this man and I knew something was up with him but now that I know I have a flood of emotions! I'm very hurt by his actions bc I beg for him to talk to me show me attention and all that other stuff but he choose to do this I don't get it! I confronted him with all of it and the only things he says is he was just bored and playing around! Yeah it's just all lies! Should I stay and work it out or leave and move on bc I can't trust him and I really want to beat him and that's saying it nicely!

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I had this very same problem with my ex-husband. We were married for five years and had five kids before I stopped lying to myself and making excusses for him. He to said he was board and I was to busy with the kids to pay him the attention he needed. After I opened my eyes and stopped being a fool, my life has been so much better. Ever since then I have always said if my significant can't talk to me about a problem and he/she even thinks about sending dirty pics or sexting then he/she really isn't into me and not worth my time. The finally decision is yours, however think about how you feel at this moment and then think about if you will still feel this way in six, nine and twelve months from now? If you feel you will then its time for him to go. Hope this helps. Good luck.

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