My husband has affair....

Hi, I met my husband in March 2004 and after 5 months relationship we decided to get Marry in August 2004. I used to have affair before we met and I told him about my x so he started doubting me even after marriage . He used to abuse me and we used to fight a lot but I was thinking that may be after some time our relation would be fixed . And in December 2004 I got pregnant and our relation was changed we were so happy together . After a year of my daughter was born I started my job in pharmacy and after 6 months all things started again . He put so many restrictions on me like I couldn't go out with my friends , I couldn't wear shorts and many more but I did everything as per he told me just because I didn't want any fight between us after my daughter but still he didn't stop and that bothered me so much . I was so frustrated coz after doing all those things for him and changed my self completely for him he didn't realize it . So I started dating one of my. Coworker thinking that I will take my daughter with me and would be free for him .so I told my husband about my x and asked my x to live with me but he left me and never contacted me . And here my husband put a condition that if I want my daughter I have to live with him so again we were together . He didn't live me but he wanted some one to had sex . For 2 years he abused me and beat me too but I had suffered everything coz of my daughter . It has been 6 years I had broke up with my x but everyday he torture me about him . Still I was living my life coz of my daughter but just before 2 months I knew about my husband's affair and he told me that she is not ready to marry him so he has to live with me . Please advise me what should I do ? Should I leave him and start my own life with my daughter or should I live with him just as I am living now

This may be hard to hear, but you need to leave him with your daughter, if you have any relatives that you could possibly move in with? It's not a healthy environment for you or your daughter to be in. You should be with someone who loves you and treats you with respect. Stop taking the abuse, you deserve better. No one deserves to be abused, mentally or physically.