Emotional affair

Found out last week that my husband of 15 years was having an emotional affair. Can I ever get over this? My heart aches. I want to end the pain but I dont know how. I want to save my marriage but I dont know if I can ever get past this. Hurt, decieved, confused, worried, scared.. I could go on and on

See sooner or later this would have had ended he was keeping you in an illusion that he loved you or your marriage was working fine, but in reality its not the case, I know, being with anyone for 15 yrs has a great impact on you and you were highly attached to him, but now its over and you are feeling devastated. but there is nothing you can do to change the past, you have to keep looking forward, start picking pieces of life together and move on, I know hurts, but with time it will ease, and truly for a cheating husband its not worth to cry. Get over it, i know you can.

Hey there, Last month I also found out my partner was having an emotional affair....I went from being a strong easy going person to an emotional wreck. I felt betrayed, hurt & lied to. I just couldn't believe it.... If you want to talk get in touch...

I found out two weeks ago my husband of 23 years has had a "friendship" with a women for the last 14 years. They met online in a card game and chatted, then they started talking on the phone and texting. This past year it has only been a weekly phone call in the morning when he is driving to work. He never told me about her, lied to me when I asked about the evidence of her I saw at different times (phone records, deleted texts, etc) and lied to me when I confronted him. He finally confessed and we have spent the past couple of weeks trying to rediscover if we can stay together. We have 4 grown children, 3 grandchildren and have been having the time of our lives for the past couple of years since we became empty-nesters. I can in some ways understand how it started as a friendship a long time ago, but I can't understand how he let it keep going and kept lying to me all these years. I'm devastated when I think about it but I don't want to give up my life and start all over again. I never suspected him because I thought he was the most honest and respectable man I have ever known. I haven't told anyone because there is no one I know that wouldn't be extremely to know about this. It hurts so much ... my mind is in a haze ... I can't sleep unless I drink ... it is hard to go on ... Devastated in California ...