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Okay, so I met this guy like 5 months ago at this karaoke bar that I frequent often, we're chit chatting and he's got this southern accent ...come to find out he's here from South Carolina working. Well, this one night we get to chatting and this guy we'll call Brad went from sweet & shy to sweet & very confident which is all good. He ends up asking me out on a date & I say "yes". So, later I say I gotta go it's late & I gotta work in the morng... Im Why kinda rushing out the door to go to my car as he says let me walk you to your car. He does & then asks if he could give me a kiss. Flattered & suprised I give him just a short but sweet kiss good night. So, we go out on our first date and something strange happens and I end up blacking out which I have never ever done. I know your probably thinking he put something in my drink, well someone might have but but it definately wasnt him. Anyways, I end up waking up on his love seat w/ him on the other couch. Let me just tell you he totally had my back &took care of me like a complete gentleman would. Embarassed but thankful we tried it again & went to hockey game, that date wa sunlike the first one... We had a blast and we've nbeen together ever since. So, this brings us to today...which he is still my Mr. Wonderful... but sometimes like all relationships when we get into a little luv spat I tend to freak out a bit 'cause I have that thing reminding me he eventually is gonna have to leave & go back home to South Caolina. We are so perfect except for that fct. We have discussed that fact and he wants to stay together. He says he loves me & has never been happier w/ anyone. I would tell myself... yeah..yeah...of course he's gonna say that... but let me just say he's proven his feelings for me & as I mentioned he says we're not ending our relationship when he leaves but then there goes those voices in my head saying... Yeah, easier said than done. I want to believe that but I've never done a long distance relationship before. I'm so madly in love, head over frikn heels for this man...he my the man I thought didnt exist... My Prince Charming... So many times I wanted to not continue this relationship in fear of not wanting to have to deal w/ the what I was picturing going to be emotional hell. I was already assumming the worst w/out giving it a 50/50 chance that it might work out & have a happy ending. I havent tossed out the fact either that it just might not either but at least I gave it a try... Now, trust me I've my share of some messed up relationships & I've been married once before so Im well aware of what may happen & the pain & heartache I may endure...but something inside tells me to take that chance & have faith in true love... Let me tell you Im still scared but I've never had my gut tell me to put all my "chips" on the line and call "all in "... This would not be my usual choice of action... but if I dont gamble and let it go I just might be letting my prince charming go and I cant let that happen. I figure if it really is meant to be this whole thing will somehow work itself out for us. What do u think... I really need some outside opinions negative & positive jus to help me prepare....

Head over heels...

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woah. ok this is very simple... MOVE TO SOUTH CAROLINA! Believe me things don't just work themselves out. the universe rewards self sacrifice. If he absolutely has to go back and you don't want to lose him GO WITH HIM. Marry him, have kids, grow old together. I know you'll miss your family and friends but you'll meet new friends and you can always come back to visit family. you're an adult and you're out of the nest so fly.

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