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Girlfriend or not?

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I've liked this girl for years and we're really good friends. We've talked about dating but it never happened. At a party, me and her got off when she stopped and said; "This is weird, I like (my best friend)". After that we just cuddled and talked for about 4 hours. I really really like her so what do I do?

Girlfriend or not?

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Tell her how you feel and tell her you can't keep hanging out with her if nothing is going to happen. Tell her your heart is being broken and you can't keep doing this to yourself. Then stop and listen. if she says it's too weird and nothing can happen then you stop talking to her all together. Don't find some other girl and try to make her jealous take some time to get over your feelings and then begin dating other girls. If you do it this way and you actually get over her there is a good chance that when she sees you with another girl she will become jealous. Then you've got a chance. For now she's the one on top and you're the one chasing. if you keep letting her lead she'll never stop running.

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