What do I do and how do I do it?

MARTIN12 - Jun 30 2013 at 04:21

Member since Jun 2013

Oh gosh. Where to start... Okay so i have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months. Although, last month was not good. My friends started texting him pretending to be a girl in his section in marching band. He flirted a lot and i confronted him about it and he said he was just talking but never was actually going to do anything. I still don't completely believe him but i tried to because we have been together so long but i also lost all trust in him. I tried to breakup with him but I'm not good at breaking up so he was still on the hook and being led on. When i tried to do it he was really upset so i said lets still be friends so over the month it's just like were dating. Bad on my part. I have been too chicken to do or say anything so i just tried to make it work but i cant trust him at all and i don't think i will ever be able to and i am not happy at all. A few days ago I was with a very good friend of mine and he told me he liked me and wanted to be with me. He tried to kiss me but i did not do it because even if me and the first guy are not official i don't want to hurt him. But i think my friend is a good choice because he would not hurt me, i trust him, and he is giving me that feeling of happiness that i have missed for quite some time. I do like him but i don't know what to do with the other guy. What do i do? What do i say to both guys? Should i date my friend and completely leave my 'boyfriend'? I need someone to tell me flat out and examples how to. I need to get my point across to both people and i am not good at that...Please help!