Girlfriends and not letting go

I have a girlfriend however I can't get away from my ex. I watch her on Facebook and see when she is online with what app. I know in my head my ex was no good for me however I am obsessed. I have never been jealous with any other woman but with my ex I am so green . The thought of her with other man kills me but with my current girlfriend I Am not bothered. I can't walk away I owe money to my ex. It's her birthday soon is it wrong to send a card . I appreciate your advice

dont get into this, i mean it, just stay away, dont send any card, dont keep in touch, it will only hurt u on a long run because the way u said that shes still in ur mind, this will only put u in a mess my dear, u will go through emotional crises if u keep in touch with her, ya if theres nothng in ur heart for her anymore than it would have been a diff situation, but wen u cant see her with someone else even now, it means u wont be able to take her lightly hence stay away completely , my webplace songofgod.blogspot.in

Hi I have been in a similar situation, it is when a guy treats me bad, I want them more, my real dad was abusive when I was a baby and my mum left him successfully when I was 6. The love and belonging I did not get I often crave. I am married and have been with my husband 17 years in total, we are going back and forward with separation I do not want someone who loves me I want done one who doesn't, to make me feel I can make them change. My now husband when he was younger did not want to see much of me, I became obsessed, Is there anything I'm your life, whee you can relate to feeling unwanted Here to help Angel cake