Relationship problem? Please help!!!!

There is a guy I know in class. He is really nice to me. We help each other in class, do hw, have lunch together, chat on FB every day. Then one day, I know he has gf( he said not sure about the relationship, not official yet). Then class end, he still send message for me everyday, just a short conservation but never end. It lasts until the next day and the day after that. It's sad that I have a feeling for him. I want to stop, but I don't know how to say to him. He may want to be best friend I guess. What I need to do for this case??? Its hard for me :(. Please help me!!!

Ask him if he is in a relationship with that other girl & if he still says he doesn't know then ask him what he wants to get out of your guys relationship. He wouldn't be spending all this time with you & talking to you if he didn't like you back

Thank you for replying! I don't think he likes me, for based on the conversation we have, he doesn't ask me about my family, friend, or what I am doing,...

Okay then your right most likely he doesn't. So now you need to ask yourself if you can just be friends with him or not. & if yes then back off on talking with him a bit so you don't feel like he's always there & you will regain feelings. Then meet new people to hang out with at lunch. But if your answer is no. You can't only be friends with him. Then you have to tell him that. So he knows where you stand.

Thanks! It helps me a lot :)

You're welcome & I wish you the best of luck! (:

Hi! IZZY how have you been? As you told me last time, I did go out for a date with another guy. However, I don't feel like I like him. I decided not to meet and just focuse on studying, but back to school, the guy who I told you about keep contact to me, we still send message but haven't meet since summer class ended. We decided to go out for his birthday next 2 weeks. What's a sign for that? Thanks!

I think if his birthday dinner is with you two and some other people, then he just wants to spend time with you. But if he just wants to take you alone, then maybe he has missed spending time with you. And wants you back in his life more, but take things slow just to get the feel of things.

I see. We will go for club tomorrow with my friends who he doesn't know. However, I think it just normal thing based on what you said. I will take thing slow and tell you know how it is going. Thanks for your reply. Help me a lot :).

Okay(: you're very welcome! I wish you you the best of luck!