Cheater

My husband and I are about to celebrate our two year anniversary... I messed up and slept with my best friend. I don't know what to do... I feel really bad about it... I really need some advice!!!

Hi CICI88, I think the best way to get rid of your guilt is to tell your husband straight up. He will be angry at first but if you show him how much you love him and ensure he knows it was a simple mistake and you do regret it his love for you will show and he will forgive you. If he truely loves you he will allow you to explain yourself and if your relationship is strong enough you should be able to work through it. It will take time but I think the best thing to do is be honest so you can stop feeling guilty.

Hi, two things here - one, that you made a mistake, and you are letting your husband think all is okay. if i were your husband i'd be more hurt that you let me believe that slightly more than what you did. for your part, the hard part is now that somethign has happened and even if you didn't mean to hurt him - it's done. and now you have to let things unravel by telling your husband. whatever he does or decision he takes you've to accept it - and THEN trust your love to sort it all out. the hurt and the pain are part of it and you need to let that happen. honesty hurts but you won't be accused of cheating AND lying.