So my boyfriend and I moved in way too early. Less than a month after we moved in I got suspended from school for a semester, got in a car wreck, lost my license 6 days before I was supposed to renew it, I got fired from the better of my two jobs, and it all made me really depressed. My boyfriend stayed with me through it but one night we got in a fight and broke up. We didn't speak for a day. After that, we apologized, talked civilly, and despite the fact that we wanted to get back together, we both agreed that we needed a break to figure us out. So now I am moving out and we agree to be friends, and if things get better and we get back together, which I hope we do, so be it. We also agreed though that even if things got better and it just didn't feel right, we would not date, just be friends. Obviously, I want to get back together, and I think he does too. I just would like some third party opinions.
It sounds likes the stress of life caused the two of you to separate. Is that truly love? Only you can answer that question. Do you think your stress scared him or pushed him a way? It sounds like the two of you have made an objective decision about the future of your relationship-this is good. It is much better than arguing. Take the time away-he may need it as much as you do. If the two of you really want one another, you will leave the door open for a future together.