Is he still atracted to me????

I've been with this man for 5 years and we have three kids I complain to him about not giving me compliments and been doing so for 4 of the years its been a problem I hear him talking to his boss "Hay beautiful how are" his boss is a man his whole work crew jokes like that I don't know why and I know he is not gay But he doesn't say anything like that to me I hear him till his boss and the other guys Hay sexy beautiful pretty more in 5 months than I've heard in all the years we've been together I talk to him about this all the time he said that I was insurcure and I am because he doesn't make me fell wanted or pretty or anything told him that and he said nothing didn't try to say no you are wrong he just sat there. What should I think Or do I'm lost and hurt. sorry for the miss spelled word

Look.....see the problem here is "I complain to him about not giving me compliments and been doing so for 4 of the years its been a problem". You complain. You guys have children together so obviously he finds you attractive and loves you otherwise he wouldn't be with you. You may not insecure just hurt but the way you address the problem or concern comes across as you are. Remember, guys will always think different than women. They don't react like women do. You can't expect them to response and act like women. Rephrase your concerns get it across him without the act of complaints. Call him handsome show him that you are interested in him after all these years and children. Don't expect in return let it flow naturally. Show him more love despite of that's the real beauty.