Marriage on the rocks

married for 18 years and before that dated for 5 years. have two teenage children. have grown apart mainly because of family issues. husband listens totally to his sister and mother. refuses to see my point of view. living apart for 1 year now. I want to cal it quits he refuses either to break or make,

You can file divorce paperwork...does not sound like there is anything to save...Take care of you and your children's well being!

if he refuses counseilling then you must quit even if he refuses you