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When I first met the man I was to marry he was he sweetest man ever and wanted to make me happy and I would in return do the same. I am a caretaker for my disabled parents along with working and going to school part time and he has been very accepting of that. We have been together 6 years now and married almost 3 and its almost like I don't know who the hell this person is! He was lazy, but now won't get out the bed when his is not working. I have tried to be his cheerleader, but honestly it is getting exhausting. Sex! ha Don't what that is unless you count the 5 mins I get on our anniversary or a holiday. I don't honestly want a lot, a walk down the street holding hands at this point would suffice. We don't have children, and at this point I would never want any if this is the empty shell I would have to offer to them. Also just FYI Im 28! Any advice, suggestions, would be appreciated....serious only please this is my life.

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Well I got to say that it sounds like you should tell him that you would like to do more together and that he should try to work on the relationship. Or that if you can't work out in a current amount of time like a month to help change your relationship, that maybe your not the right person for each other. I mean your 28 your in your peak of your youth. And do not stick it out, if it does not look like he going to change since it will just get worst, and later it will be harder to get away because you will have things under both your names. Remeber that you have one life, and if you stay with someone you can not stand nowyou will end up hating him for almost everything. So do what is right for you.

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