Obsession

Just recently I've started obsessively thinking about a man from my past whom I had only briefly known. I always thought he was attractive but never had an intimate relationship with him. He never crossed my mind for a lot of years now suddenly I can't stop thinking about him and wanting him intimately. I don't know if he still lives in my area or if he's in a relationship. I only knew his nickname so I don't even know his first name though I do have a surname. I'm scared to try and track him down incase he's in a relationship but I do no that he was once attracted to me. What should I do ?

Hey :) You never know until you try. Either way it's going to trickle in the back of your mind. In my opinion, I would track him down, find out what his relationship status is, and IF he is with someone, well then you know and you can try to move on, but IF he is not, well you only live once.. ;)