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i am a girl of 20.i had a relation with a boy for 3 years.we had been physical n so i m not a virgin.he had my photos(casual) and letters.now he is harassing and blackmailing me and my family to defame us.he is abusing my family.my parents have decided to lodge a complaint against him as there is no other way to stop him.now i have a fear that he could disclose my secret and it could be proved by my virginity test..so what can i do to avoid this i cant say no to that test because of immense mental pressure.i don't my family to know this.i love my family... please help me urgent

truth will come out,tell your parents everything.